Anal Sex Prep Guide for Men

Advices from Ganymede and Antinous
Just because you are gay doesn't mean that anal sex is easy. Many tops make the mistake of assuming they'll slide right in with a dab of saliva like in porn. Nothing could be further from the truth. Anal sex is an intense act that should be viewed more highly by gay men. If you are into the guy you are with or have a special friend with benefits then you will want to tape these tips to your wall because they will bring you hours of great back door action.
The secret to making anal sex a fantastic experience for both you and man is all about preparation. Whether you’re doing it for the first time or you've made it a regular part of your sex life, there are some essential steps to take before any back door action goes on. As you both get used to each other, some of these tips will become less time consuming, but still it’s always necessary. And before you think your dick gives you power in the bedroom, remember the bottom calls the shots when it’s time to go deep.

Use Dark Sheets
If the potential of an accident or the spray of a load is an issue for you, you may want to start by replacing those bright white bed sheets with a darker color. You’re less likely to see stains and it’s a good clue to your man that you want to get busy when he sees that you have changed the decor.

Don't Over-douche
Lots of men think they have to spend hours cleaning themselves.  While douching will clean out the anal cavity and may even feel good to some people, excessive douching can dry out the anal canal and cause micro-abrasions that make passing sexually transmitted infections (STIs) more likely. A simple rinse using anal douche will do the trick. It has an easy to squeeze bulb and a small tip for easy insertion. Plus it’s small enough to be discreet. And every top should have one just in case.

Relax Him
When planning to have anal sex, especially for the first time, it is important to create a relaxing, non-intimidating atmosphere. The more relaxed he is, the easier it will be. Go at his pace. Putting on some sexy music, getting the lighting right and starting out with a massage will get him to loosen up literally and figuratively.

Anal Foreplay
You should lick it before you stick it. But if you don't know the guy that well then prepares him by rubbing his anus and perineum gently with your fingers. Be sure to trim your nails and wash your hands before entering.  You can even use a prostate massager to get him accustomed to being penetrated there. He'll love the stimulation. If you keep up the intensity, he can have an anal orgasm. Try a prostate stimulator to arouse your man. It is soft to the touch and reaches his special spot with ease.

Lube up
The No. 1 rule for pleasurable anal sex is to always use plenty of lube. Since the anus does not produce its own natural lubrication, it is necessary to make it slick, silky and wet use lubricant. Make sure the lube you choose is condom-safe and have lots of it on hand. You may need to reapply during your anal sex session. If he has discomfort during the process, then use an anal comfort spray relaxes his anus and keeps him lubricated during penetration.

Use Protection
Pregnancy may not be an issue for gay men but STD's are. You should always wear a condom unless you are in a tested committed relationship. The anus is susceptible to tiny cuts and tears that could make transmitting easier.  Condoms can also be put on dildos and prostate massagers for hygienic purposes and easy clean up.

Always Be Prepared
If anal sex is your goal, there is a bit of prep work involved in order to make it a great experience for both you and your man. It is really in your best interest to make sure he enjoys himself, because you will get more out it if he does. So be a boy scout and keep these tips in mind. You can thank me later.









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